He won’t commit, but he also won’t leave you alone. And this analogy explains exactly why. When a man keeps coming back without ever giving you the relationship you asked for, it’s not love. It’s access. He doesn’t want to commit, but he doesn’t want to lose the comfort, validation, and loyalty you give him. It’s like walking into a store wanting a brown dress… and they keep bringing you black, navy, burgundy. Options, but never what you asked for. Some men do the same. They offer substitutes an

The Illusion of Happiness: Why Chasing Joy Misleads Us

You’ve been moving through a difficult retrograde period that caused emotional setbacks, delays, and disappointment—especially around relationships. Now that the retrograde energy is lifting, things are shifting forward. The time of solitude and reflection has helped you decide what you truly want and don’t want. Justice and divine intervention are stepping in after this challenging phase, clearing out old cycles so a new beginning can unfold. Even if someone didn’t return during retrograde, it’

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Transformative Testimony of God's Love

I cried writing this, Mum… It’s been a month without you, and every day still feels unreal. I keep reaching for my phone to tell you something small, to share a win, a bad day, a silly story then I remember you’re not here the way you used to be. The silence you left behind is loud, but so is the love you planted in me. Mum, you were my best friend, my teacher, my safe place. You guided me with strength, prayed for me with a pure heart, and believed in every dream I ever whispered. You taught me